- Never Isolate Yourself for Too Long
Never stay alone. You will eventually start to see those who are not in your best interests as friends. When one is alone, even a nonsensical song may begin to make sense if it is the only music played. You will eventually find yourself nodding along with it without even understanding why.
2. *Comparing causes harm*
Even while God is happy with your growth, it might make you feel unqualified to compare yourself to someone who is better at something than you are. On the other hand, even when God has given you a larger capacity and asked you to do more, comparing yourself to someone worse than you can lead you to believe that you have “arrived.” Both are detrimental since God’s eligibility for you is based on calling rather than comparison.
3. *Appraise Connections*
Make a mental inventory of all the gains and losses you experience from each connection in your life. When there is more expense than benefit, end the relationship.
4. Achieving Success in Life*
It’s possible that you’re not doing well enough for society to take notice of you if you’re not rising in the dominance hierarchy. “How many people are reliant on you?” is a useful metric. How many people would suffer if you passed away right now?
5. *Don’t Be Afraid to Say “No”*
When it’s appropriate, don’t be afraid to say “No” and provide a sincere explanation.
6. Adhering to the Guidelines
The likelihood of having a life worth telling about is nil if all you did was work hard and follow the rules.
7. *Actual Development*
Stepping outside your comfort zone is when real progress starts. It’s about more than just hitting the weight room; it’s about boosting your confidence, testing your boundaries, and questioning your assumptions. Go beyond what you believe is achievable.
8. *Belief is Essential*
You won’t get very far in life if you lack the guts to take risks or walk confidently, regardless of how intelligent or attractive you are. History does not favor cowards.
9. *Career Priority*:
You should prioritize your career. Nobody enjoys spending time with losers. It’s preferable to prioritize your work while still having fun. It is preferable to balance them.
10. *How you are seen by others when you are struggling*
Everyone believes that a person going through a difficult time is foolish, useless, and too sentimental. Though tragic, it does occur.
These are just a handful of the many things I choose to discuss; I had a lot more to learn. I hope you take them in and think about them.
