Everyone is aware of at least one individual who exudes charm and confidence without trying hard. Even though vocal communication accounts for about 90% of all interactions, your nonverbal cues might convey a certain message. If your CV and your body language don’t match during a job interview, it could be due to the way your arms, back, legs, and face muscles are arranged. You want your body to convey the same level of confidence in your abilities as it does on your resume.
Slouching
Hunching over is a huge no-no, yet it’s one of the most commonly made body-language errors. It may be caused by our habit of sitting in front of computers for long periods, but as soon as you get up from your chair, it’s time to straighten out that back. Try puffing out your chest slightly while keeping your shoulders back.
2. Limp Handshake
It’s programmed in our minds to deem somebody with a weak handshake as untrustworthy or conniving. Unfortunately, there’s no way around it – you either have a firm handshake and radiate trustworthiness or you don’t. It’s not a good idea to have a crushing handshake, either. Try to respond with the same amount of pressure that the person opposite you is giving.
3. Avoiding Eye Contact
If you’re not used to doing this, it could be one of the hardest things to learn. Playing the eye-contact tennis game with your discussion partner is a typical practice. Avoid avoiding their gaze for too long, but don’t look them in the eye either. Keeping eye contact allows you to assess the other person’s reaction.
4.Checking your wristwatch or smartphone
Everyone should be able to see this one. It’s among the rudest things you can do to the person you’re speaking to. It should be obvious to others that you are totally focused on the conversation when you are not constantly checking your phone or watch for messages or the time. You’re wasting both of your time if you’re not giving the conversation your all.
